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Triggers

Fear of Abandonment

Concerns about being abandoned or neglected in relationships, leading to anxiety or insecurity.

Example

Imagine your partner takes longer than usual to respond to a text, and you start worrying that they may not care about you anymore.

Fear of Rejection

Feelings of rejection when excluded or not included by others, often causing sadness or loneliness.

Example

When friends make plans without inviting you, you feel left out and wonder if they really care about you or your friendship.

Sensitivity to Criticism

A heightened sensitivity to criticism and feelings of invalidation or worthlessness, impacting self-esteem.

Example

When a colleague points out a mistake you made at work, you feel personally hurt and question your capabilities.

Fear of Betrayal

Emotional distress caused by perceived betrayal or disloyalty from others, leading to trust issues.

Example

You confide in a friend, and they share your secret with others, making you feel deeply betrayed and distrustful.

Feeling Invalidated

Experiencing feelings of unvalidation or dismissal in one's thoughts and feelings, impacting emotional well-being.

Example

When expressing your feelings to a partner, they dismiss your concerns, leaving you feeling unheard and invalidated.

Fear of Isolation

Anxiety or discomfort with being alone or feeling disconnected from others, leading to withdrawal.

Example

If you spend a weekend alone without social interaction, you start feeling anxious and uneasy about your relationships.

Difficulty with Change

Struggles to cope with unexpected changes or disruptions in routine, often leading to anxiety.

Example

When a planned event is suddenly canceled, you feel unsettled and anxious about the change in your routine.

Concerns about Loyalty

Worries about loyalty and trustworthiness in relationships, often leading to feelings of betrayal.

Example

You notice your partner spending time with someone else, causing you to question their loyalty and commitment to you.

Feeling Unappreciated

Feeling overlooked or undervalued for one's contributions and efforts, impacting self-worth.

Example

After working hard on a project, you feel disappointed when your efforts go unnoticed by your boss.

Behaviors

Emotional Withdrawal

Tendency to withdraw emotionally from relationships in response to perceived threats or discomfort.

Example

When conflicts arise in a relationship, you find yourself pulling away instead of addressing the issues directly.

Impulsivity

Engaging in impulsive behaviors, often as a way to cope with overwhelming emotions or stress.

Example

During stressful times, you may resort to impulsive shopping or eating habits to cope with your feelings.

Clinginess

Excessive need for closeness and reassurance, leading to clingy behaviors that can strain relationships.

Example

You find it hard to give your partner space, often texting them repeatedly when they're not responding.

Overthinking

Tendency to ruminate on thoughts and analyze situations excessively, leading to anxiety and indecision.

Example

After a conversation with a friend, you replay every word in your mind, worrying about what they really think of you.

Jealousy

Feelings of jealousy or insecurity in relationships with others, often leading to conflict and anxiety.

Example

You feel jealous when your partner interacts with someone you perceive as a potential threat to your relationship.

Emotional Detachment

A feeling of emotional detachment or dissociation during stressful times, making it hard to connect with others.

Example

In highly stressful situations, you find yourself feeling disconnected from reality, struggling to engage with your surroundings.

Sensitivity to Perception

Heightened sensitivity to how others perceive or treat oneself, often leading to social anxiety.

Example

In social gatherings, you become hyper-aware of others' opinions, leading to anxiety about how you are being judged.

Self-Sabotage

Engaging in behaviors that undermine personal success or happiness, often stemming from low self-esteem.

Example

You may avoid pursuing a job opportunity because you believe you won't succeed, thus limiting your potential for growth.

Causes

Childhood Trauma

Past traumatic experiences in childhood that impact current emotional health and relationship patterns.

Example

You find yourself reacting strongly to perceived rejection, tracing these feelings back to childhood experiences of neglect.

Issues with Self-Worth

Issues related to self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy or worthlessness, affecting personal and professional life.

Example

When faced with a setback, you immediately feel it defines your self-worth, leading to further negative thoughts.

Identity Issues

Struggles with understanding one's identity and self-image, impacting self-acceptance and confidence.

Example

You often question who you are and feel lost, especially during significant life changes or transitions.

Trust Issues

Difficulties in trusting others due to past betrayals or disappointments, affecting relationships and social interactions.

Example

You find it hard to fully open up to a partner because of past experiences where trust was broken, leading to feelings of isolation.

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